Four Seasons

Cross Stitch Pattern

With us living in Missouri, we do get to have the four seasons each year-often within a weeks time. Last week we had an ice storm so I had to work from home the last half of the week and today it is in the 70’s outside. After being cooped up in the house for a few days- I was so ready to get out! Saturday we went and checked cattle & then since it was so wet out we were able to start burning some brush piles in the fields. Saturday evening we went out for date night and had hibachi. Then on Sunday we went to church and had lunch with my parents. When we got home- Josh decided he wanted to burn a couple more brush piles. I’m really not a crafty-artistic person at all, but I’ve decided to cross stitch this picture of a cow for the nursery to keep myself busy while we are waiting. I told Josh that I would bring my cross-stitching out to the field with me so I could work on it while he was burning. So, I take the side-by-side out to the field, got all my stuff out and while I was searching for the right color of thread-the cross stitch material blew off my lap . I picked it up and then went to thread my needle- only to realize it wasn’t there. So I spent a good 30 minutes searching in the grass for my needle. It was literally like finding a needle in a haystack. Josh’s dad pulled up while I was searching and he said he had some needles at the house so I ended up just going there and getting a new one. So funny to me that he is the one that sews!

Last night we had dinner with Josh’s parents and Jake & Sy for his mom’s birthday. I’m the one that always organizes dinners, holidays etc- but apparently I forgot to tell Jake & Sy what time we were meeting for dinner. It ended up being a very long dinner since we had to wait for them to get there. Lol.

Seven

We started our weekend with going to dinner at Rachel’s grandparents for dinner Friday night. We had pork roast with all the fixings and cake for dessert. Saturday we went to check cows together and we had a new calf. Then we headed to our nephews birthday party at the bounce house. He got a Stretch Armstrong that I think we had more fun with than he did. We ended the evening with a date night going out to eat dinner and came home and stared watching a new TV show together.

2022

As we enter the new year, it is filled with hope as we pray that this will be the year we adopt our baby! Our adoption journey has been filled with twists and turns as we have learned so much about what adoption means. We were like most hopeful adoptive couples I imagine, at first looking at the different types of adoption-foster to adopt, international, domestic, domestic infant adoption, etc. We quickly decided that domestic infant adoption was the right path for us- but had no idea the vast number of adoption agencies, lawyers, websites, etc were out there. We learned so much about the importance of open adoption, and are hopeful for that type of relationship with our child’s birth family. I think the biggest thing that I have realized is how adoption is not an event, but rather a part of our future child’s identity and that is something that will require us to adapt through the years. It is easy to get caught up in the desire to become a parent, but so important to me to maintain high ethical behavior and work only with ethical agencies/lawyers/marketing companies. We have had to say no to potential opportunities after realizing that either they weren’t doing what was best for the expectant mothers, or for the adoptive parents. I really have a passion to at some point try to establish some type of system to help both expectant mothers and hopeful adoptive parents find ethical resources and hopefully shut down some of the unethical ones. We will see what the future holds!

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